by Debra K. Farrington
When
I married and moved in with my husband a
couple of years ago he offered me about a
foot and a half of closet space to hang up
my clothes. Now, my husband is a very
generous man and this offer was no
reflection on that; those 18 inches were
actually half the closet. We live in a house
built nearly a century ago, with lots of
charm and little storage space.Not only
did we need to find a place for my clothes
but we had to find room for plenty of other
stuff. Both of us — adults marrying in
mid-life —had complete households. There
were two kitchens’ worth of dishes and pans,
more towels and sheets than anyone needs,
and you don’t even want to hear about the
number of books we had between us. We spent
several months going through all our
possessions, deciding which things we would
keep and which we would give away. The
experience not only left me lighter in terms
of possessions, but lighter spiritually as
well. Too much clutter and too little free
space clog the soul.
Many of us have more possessions than we
need. "As Christians," writes theologian
Margaret Kim Peterson, "we are called to
respond differently to abundance. Many
things in life…are truly good. They are to
be treated with…respect, and sometimes that
means saying no to too much. [We must take]
material things seriously enough to be
willing to get rid of them or to decline to
acquire them in the first place" (in
Keeping House: The Litany of Everyday
Life, Jossey Bass, 2007; p. 54).
Make clearing out stuff you don’t need
anymore into a spiritual practice. Begin by
asking God to open your arms and hands so
you can let go of things that you no longer
use, and recycle those with some life left
in them to others who might genuinely need
them. Then start going through your closets,
bookshelves, and (if you’re truly brave)
attic or basement, asking yourself what you
really want or need to keep.
Maybe it’s time to give away clothes that
no longer fit (be honest!) or that you
haven’t worn in a year to an organization
that can recycle them to others.
Go through the books and the pans and
gadgets in the kitchen with the same goal in
mind. Is someone graduating from college
this year and setting up her first
apartment? Is there a local shelter that
might be able to use some of those extra
dishes crowding your closets and cupboards?
Maybe your library would appreciate
donations for their book sale. An animal
shelter might find those old towels, sheets,
and blankets very helpful.
So many of God’s children have pressing
needs, and you may have useful items sitting
unused in your home. Consider lightening
your load this fall and giving those useable
materials away. Letting go of things you
don’t need frees up space not only in your
home but also in your soul, making more room
for God.
Debra K. Farrington is the author of
eight books of Christian spirituality and an
experienced retreat leader and speaker.
Check out her Web site
at
www.debrafarrington.com
This article is published in the October
2007 issue of Lutheran Woman Today.
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