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by Molly M. Ginty
Every spring, Cassie Hoeprich watched the ritual
begin. "Around this time of year, the girls in my
school would start freaking out, running to the gym
and going on diets because they wanted the ‘perfect’
beach body," says Hoeprich, 18.
Girls would starve themselves into slimness,
subsisting on celery and making endless laps around
the track. In secret, many would binge on
high-calorie sweets and snacks, desperate to ease
their gnawing hunger or to fill a perceived
emptiness inside. Hoeprich responded by launching an
annual "Love Your Body" day and founding Body Aloud,
a student-run size-acceptance organization at her
San Diego high school.
According to health advocates, both undereating
and overeating are fueled by negative body image — a
problem so pervasive that a Dole Nutrition Institute
poll found that 40 percent of young women would
sacrifice a year of their lives if it would
guarantee they would remain thin for life. "From
magazines that peddle fad diets to ads that feature
razor-thin models, our culture teaches girls and
women to hate their bodies, no matter whether
they’re heavy or thin," says Connie Sobczak,
co-founder of The Body Positive, a Berkeley,
California, non-profit organization that promotes
healthy living. "But by giving girls positive
messages and helping them establish healthy
patterns, we can teach them to love their bodies
despite this negativism."
How do you know that a girl needs help? One sign
may be that she’s over eating. According to the
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, a record
19 percent of children ages 6 to 11 are overweight,
as are a record 17 percent of adolescents ages 12 to
19. Being overweight can boost a girl’s risk of
asthma, breast cancer, diabetes, heart disease,
infertility, and osteoarthritis — and ravage her
confidence and self-esteem.
Equally hazardous? Extreme dieting. Weight loss
pills, taken by 13 percent of high school girls, can
cause anxiety, gas, oily leakage, and poor vitamin
absorption. Eating disorders, affecting 1 to 3
percent of girls, can lead to malnutrition, stomach
rupture, tooth erosion, and heart, liver, and kidney
damage. In 6 percent of cases, reports the American
Journal of Psychiatry, anorexia (self-starvation)
can lead to premature death.
Patterns of undereating and overeating are not
easy to break. Research from the University of
Pennsylvania shows that commercial diets don’t work,
and a study in the medical journal Lancet
shows that most girls who undergo intensive
treatment for eating disorders never achieve full
recovery.
Since addressing these problems after they start
isn’t always effective, health advocates say that we
must work to counter negative body image in girls as
early as possible so that they stay healthy through
adulthood. According to the Journal of
Pediatrics, overweight pre-teens are 11 to 30
more times more likely than their peers to be obese
when they are older. And according to the National
Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated
Eating Disorders, 86 percent of eating disorders
develop before age 20. How can you help girls become
body-positive? Here are experts’ top tips:
Know the parameters of healthy weight,
defined as a measurement of body mass—
Body Mass Index or BMI. "Even better standards
are the ‘healthy at any size’ paradigm or ‘metabolic
fitness,’ in which you have healthy blood pressure,
cholesterol, and blood sugar levels, regardless of
your size," says Sobczak.
During family meals, steer clear of
super-sized, sugary, starchy, convenience foods.
Follow government guidelines so that everyone gets
five to nine servings of fruits and vegetables
(along with 30 to 90 minutes of moderate exercise)
per day.
Encourage young women to practice "attuned
eating" by enjoying food when they’re hungry and
stopping when they’re full. Allow girls to eat all
the healthy food they want, trusting that their
bodies will tell them when they’re satiated.
Watch not only what your teen eats, but what
she reads. A University of Minnesota study shows
that reading weight loss articles makes a girl three
times more likely to engage in dieting practices
such as vomiting and taking laxatives.
Show appreciation and respect for diversity,
reminding young women how beautiful people are in
all their varied shapes, colors, and sizes.
Lobby schools to serve fresh, healthy food in
cafeterias; to offer more recess and physical
education; and to start body acceptance initiatives
like Body- ImageHealth.org, TheBodyPositive.org, and
Full of Ourselves (www.mclean.harvard.edu/education/youth).
Slow down and breathe deep. "In many American
families today, kids are on the run, parents are
juggling two jobs, and people are grabbing food on
the go," says Madelyn Fernstrom, director of the
University of Pittsburgh’s Weight Management Center.
"People are stressed and overeating for relaxation
when they need to find it in other ways."
Avoid using food either as a reward or as a
punishment.
Encourage girls to speak openly and think
critically — especially about body image issues.
Watch for signs of eating disorders:
irritability, skipping meals, excessive exercising,
obsessive calorie counting, anxiety about clothes
shopping, withdrawal from social activities, and
complaints that the girl — or others — are too fat.
"Note that if a girl is bulimic and binging and
vomiting, she may not lose weight, but will instead
use the bathroom frequently," says Lynn Grefe, CEO
of the National Eating Disorders Association.
Watch your own eating attitudes and
behaviors. Do you complain about your weight? Talk
constantly of dieting? Pay for a brownie with a trip
to the gym? Young women around you are absorbing
these messages. The message to you is to celebrate
your body, loving yourself — and the girls in your
life — no matter what shape you’re in.
Molly M. Ginty lives in New York City. Her
work has appeared in Ms., Marie Claire, Redbook,
and Women’s eNews.
For more information:
If you think a girl you know needs help., learn
more:
www.nationaleatingdisorders.org,
www.somethingfishy.org or National Institute
of Mental health (866-615-6464).
Article published in Lutheran Woman Today,
June 2008
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